Sunday, March 30, 2008

FRIENDS




My mum always sed " this world is a small place , u never know wen u'll bump into som1 "
I never believed her & so for a long time i didnt make any real friends , hardly letting out confidences to others , people wud just be classmates or playmates . my point was hey wats the use if ur gonna lose them any day now.
but even then unknowingly i knew there were some people whom i cud call my "friends" . This post is dedicated to all those people who have stuck with me & time & again made me realize that dosti ki bhi kafi value hai. & also to people who i know are gr8 people & have been friends to my friends
let me remember the times wen i was a kid

1. Sanchi , Aditi - two of my bestest friends 4rm bhatinda - grls i dont know wr u guys are now , but i still cherish thetimes we played badminton 2 gether ( hahha the racket used 2 b too big 4 us & we used to hold it almost 4rm it's neck) , & every day we'd sit 2gther while coming home. *miss u*

2. priyanka - 4rm assam - 4 always helping me & bringing me back to earth wenevr id be a foolish snob

3 . kv joka - 6th standard
almost into my teens , life was going fine & it shifted 2 gr8 wen the grl who used 2 come 1st invited me to her birthday party . i was delighted coz that ws my 1st " civilian" birthday party . wat i didnt know then that it wud also be the start of a lifetime of friendship . we grew up 2gether chatting incessantly on fone , abt food , h.w , guys classes almost everything under the sun
we evn share our sun signs , thanx esha- coz u made be belive that friendships cud be retained long after uv left that school . we may drift apart a lil bcoz of the exams & distance but hey we r always a call away :)

eshita - we must really apologize to esha 4 that kuch kuch hota hai stry :P :P

somnath - u'r really bhola bhala & u do tend to irritate pple sometimes , but its hard to find a friend like u . i'm glad 4 those who have ur friendship.


4, KV Fort william
shipra , meenakshi , chandana - i dont think i'll ever forget the time i spend with u guys :D.
i know after class 10 all of us went to different schools & have changes so much over the course of time that we barely speak to each other ,
but jab bhi tum logo ki yaad
aati hai , there's a certain fondness in my heart.

5. then there came the 1 yr break i took after +2 , this was the period of time wen i was left without any friends

so thanx to kiran & pranjana - u gals wr juniors but neverthless my only turf view friends , miss our walks 2gther ( well actually i used to jog & u two used to walk)

6 . aaaaaahhhhhh & now college life
this is 1 period o' my life i'll never forget . ive changed as a person , i laugh more , have more confidence in my abilities & have soooooo many friends!!!!!! i'm just so happy

on the 1st day , i tried to be friends with a purva but hehhe we wr 4rm different dimensions altogether

& then there was this grl - saheli - the quite & observant types - with whom iv shared all the ups &downs of watevr happens in clg . a true confidante saheli has also maintained our dosti after 3rd sem . never the 1 to harp on anything , she's a true frnd encouraging u , being ur partner in fun & everything else. hehhehe she also likes dil mil gaye , but never complains wen i do its burai ( hehehhe) & she was the 1 who wud keep on encouraging me by saying " arre u can do it " ( in 3rd sem) thanx


abhay - this guy is completly mad , he''ll sms u at 3 in the night about graphics sheets & then say "actually i was thinking abt calling u" , make outrageous bahanas 4 coming late ( remember the 1 wen u sed " sir a black man touched my drg sheet & it got all dirty , so i cudnt bring it" ?) , saheli in 1st sem used to think u sleep like a baby , by 2nd sem it had changed to " ekta punch marbo abhay keeee"
but he's also the person who'll be most normal 2wards u & teaches u how to be +ve evn in the hardest of times ( i still remember wen u suddenly came and sed " hey u know there is this real hot chick iin white salwar hahhahahhahhaha) but u also have our respect 4 telling a grl somethng vich no other guy wud
have
oi tera saheli & esha se zyada ho gaya !!!!!!


around 2nd sem was the time wen i 1st logged onto orkut & refound lost friends 4rm schools
among the many was victor - initially we started of as hi bye friends , coz in school we had practically never talked , but then gtalk does something to u that u talk to pple & thats hw we got chatting , yes he's my 1st online chat friend . its been a year since we started , & now its become so regular .....
, there cudnt be two people more different on earth !! but we've got our ideologies right in place & are strong human beings & thats wat we admire most in each other .

i can continue this post 4 the hundreds of people i believe are my friends , but i have a test tomorrow
so .. thanx to golu(4rm dehradun) , ankita-shobha-rahul( kv joka) , gayatri-anupam-avishek-aakriti-debosree-leena-dona-tanya(kv fort william) , the 2 arnavs-siddharth-varun-tapan-anirudhh( tuition guys) , sujoy-debraj-sourav-arijit(plz dont mind but we call u *gentle giants* coz u guys r nice types
but ahem are quite tall tall well except arijit) - parnisha-ratna-devajeet-ankit -avinash kumar( tu mast lab karta tha)-mayank( heritage aeie) , srimoyee-snigdha-
sanchari-avishek p. - i dont know 'bout those two (ece heritage)

guys if i have missed out on something to batana mat coz wen ache dost to chutne ke baad hi yaad aate hai

AS A CHILD.....

yesssss so i've finally decided on blogging yes i'm gonna do it :)
           hope it wont be hard
yours truly was born 1987  ,26thjune COMMAND HOSPITAL, CALCUTTA ( yup back then that was what it was called , it sounded soo nice naa) ,to army parents , dad was a lieutanant back then &ma just 25 ( yup really young)
ma says she thought it was a boy 'coz well hehhe, my cry was pretty much like a roar ( oops!!)
 my dida ( granny) used to make these wonderful sweaters 4 me ( she sez its always 4 the baby's best to have human touch in her clothes ) , right after that we went 2 some posting ( sry cant recount the name of that place) . so here are a few of my karnama's :p
a) as a baby i hated cerelac , & well , actually threw a whole bowl on some lady who tried 2 feed it to me forcefully

b) 1ce me & my brother had a pneumonia , and those sisters %%@#* well they used to inject me rite where it wud hurt most only wen i'd fall asleep , now being a kid of 4  yrs i couldnt take this na insaafi any more - so after 1 such attack , i 'd taken all the cups , dolls , slippers etc that i could gather & went up to the nurse's room & had thrown all that on them with full force( poor mom)

c)now this 1 is the best
  i had to give an admission test 2 get into Army public school ,Bhatinda( Punjab) for class 1 , bt the teacher there gave a class 2 questionnaire by mistake!
i did almost everything but cud'nt figure out the hindi , thats wen my mom thought hey wats taking her so much of time as every1 had gone away & i was there 4 an xtra 1/2 an hr . my mom came & saw tht i had been given a class 2 ka paper & pointed tht 2 the teacher , the teacher meanwhile , quickly to cover up her mistake sed " ohh!! koi baat nahi she'll get it"
but she didnt know the fury of miss roy did she??

   uhh mmm & then all she cud see was my pencil box flying 2wards her , but thanx 2 my mom's practise she caught it jst b4 it cud hit tht teacher . & then walked out miss roy with her head held high .




that was what childhood was like 4 me - in general i wud be this really well behaved girl in a nice frilly frock , who did her h.w regularly , but hey if u had done anything wrong to me , well , lord save u .

somewhere down the line maybe i havent changed at all , but being an army kid one of the 1st lessons we learn is  enjoy every moment as it comes along coz u know it wont last long . time doesnt stand so that u can feel sad to have left ur school , there r tests to be studied 4 , new friends to be made , parties u have  to attend , & things to be packed again.